Ladybug

During my morning shower, I had a tiny friend visit me. ¬†I haven‚Äôt seen her kind since last summer, but she still was as polite and amiable as ever! ¬†She crawled all over my shower, the only caveat of the visit being that she had a penchant to crawl into the inner depths of the tub, and plunge into the water. ¬†I‚Äôm no expert, but I don‚Äôt think that ladybugs can swim… and she seemed to corroborate that assumption. ¬†Each time she fell in, it was my obligation to save her, for what a terrible way to start a day by having a tiny bug die in the shower! ¬†After a while, I started to feel entrapped. ¬†Was I doomed to rescue this little ladybug from her own desire to swim for the remainder of my life? ¬†I hadn‚Äôt even shampooed! ¬†The little bug was swift; swift to crawl, swift to swim, swift to sink. ¬†Eventually, I decided to shampoo since my fingers were beginning to resembled prunes. ¬†I took my eyes off the ladybug for all of a Kendrick VERSE and this little bug was flailing in the water! ¬†This time, however, I had major trouble trying to bring the bug back to safety. ¬†The waters were violently swishing and swashing, carrying the ladybug over and under every crest. ¬†It was a real tragedy for the morning.

Anyways, as I was stepping out of the shower, a thought surfaced: What if I was like the ladybug? ¬†Always perpetuating my own downfall, but I have the support of my family and friends every time I fall. ¬†But what happens when they aren‚Äôt there one time? ¬†Just as I closed my eyes to shampoo and jam out to some Kendrick, what if my family and friends have their eyes and ears closed when I’m drowning?

This morning‚Äôs event reminds me of the Boy Who Cried Wolf. ¬†After awhile, the entire town gave up on the boy, and when the boy really needed the townspeople, they didn‚Äôt bother to come out and help. ¬†The ladybug embodies the soul of the Boy (although, I reckon the ladybug is a female). ¬†After numerous times of bailing her out of death, I eventually focused on myself for a short time… but a second is all it takes for life to vanquish. ¬†Now, I don‚Äôt think that I will DIE if my family and friends didn‚Äôt focus solely on me (haha, I‚Äôd be dead already), that isn‚Äôt the point of the thought, and is not the theme of this random dialogue.

The point being is to reflect on what is your bathtub water, and if it indirectly hinders family and friends, think long and hard about whether or not it is worth continuing.  In the end, we will do what we are going to do, however, a little mindfulness goes a long way to maintaining good relations (and not dying when others are jamming to some new new Kendrick).
Ladybug

stfu, please & thank you!

The great demise of humanity will not arise from nuclear genocide, mass uprisings among the poor and forgotten, nor from famine, disease, extreme sadness, nor extreme happiness.  The great demise of humanity will arise from nothing more than sheer boredom.  You see, we have become so enamored with talking about ourselves, each other, people we barely know, the day, the weather, where we grew up, if we know about this restaurant on the corner of this street and that street, and have we seen this movie, have we heard this song, talk and talk and talk and talk.  For once, can we bask in the ocean of silence, heads tilted back, floating gently atop the waves like a buoy in a serene lake.  Listening to nothing in particular, being together is just enough.  We don’t even need to be sitting close together; our bodies mold the boundaries that encloses us both.  There is always empty space, so we are never truly apart.  Just please, shut the fuck up.  Clog the hole in which words continuously creep out.  Just be present with me, that’s the only present I need.  I’ll do this, and you’ll do that.  Two independent souls working simultaneously on independent activities, both existing in the same space, form a molecule that rings out harmoniously, with each ring producing a creative ding!
stfu, please & thank you!

sand & stars

Cold hands clutch at my fingertips,

but my fingers flutter with the flow of the breeze.

My soul is as stolid as my body,

the insurmountable stature that I embody with ease.

But this fear of complacency has emerged in enemy garb,

threatening to engulf all hope in disease.

But I’ll strive to appease.

Retreat to the roots remaining far below the assassins dawdling in the shadows of trees.

I’ll gulp the goblet of eternal elixir,

sit, rest, and above all,

wait.

In between dimensions of free-flying, acrobatic atoms,

the most movement made is manifested meditatively.

 

And when time presents itself bearing two stones in hand —

one black,

the other white —

will I have to choose between them selectively?

If so, I choose none.

For a bull won’t not charge at a matador,

so will I too not not charge at life!

The elixir embedded emulations of esoteric worth in the root of my being,

and now these thoughts rest in my mind like a field of loosestrife.

All that I knew and all that I know,

is reduced to rubbish in the realm of infinite infinities.

For if every star simulates a speck of sand,

and every speck of sand represents relative realities,

dreams are but a star in the night sky.

 

 

sand & stars

Facing Loss

“The pressure of adversity does not affect the mind of the brave man… It is more powerful than external circumstances.”

– Seneca

I enjoyed, and still enjoy today, running, but I despised the difficulties faced when running with standard headphones.  The earbud would fall out of my ear every 2 or 3 steps, my arms tend to swing like a pendulum when I run, which thusly pulled on my headphone cord every 2 or 3 pumps, resulting in a fiesta of ear-tearing and general frustration.  I quickly learned to run without headphones, without music.  Two years ago, on a random Friday, I cashed my combined paychecks from working in the Electronics Department at Target and concocting Starbucks-guided beverages to supplement my first major purchase: Plantronics Backbeat Fit Bluetooth Headphones.  These headphones revolutionized the way I ran.  No more frustrating ear-tearing!  The headphones sat perfectly in my ears, allowed free range of arm movement, and were my favorite color as well!
Well, after two years of constant use, my headphones have finally taken an abrupt leave from my life.  Last night, when I was walking with a friend, my headphones fell from around my neck at some point.  When I realized the loss, my initial reaction wasn’t that of a distressed individual, but one of a collected mind.  I calmly searched through my camera bag, didn’t find them, searched through my laptop bag, didn’t find them, searched my pockets, and didn’t find them.  My friend was relatively worried about them, more worried than I was.  In fact, my worries never even surfaced.
What is the point to stressing over things that cannot be changed?  I can’t reverse time (not yet) to stop them from falling, nor can I bring them back into my life with a snap of the fingers.  I retraced my steps to no avail, but that’s okay.  I don’t get upset when I look down into an empty mug of delicious coffee, nor did I become hysterical when my backpack containing all my electronics was stolen on a bus going to Frankfurt, Germany.  I didn’t even remain upset for more than a half hour when I lost my almost-filled-up journal that contained postcards from every city I visited.  Everything in this universe harbors an inherent transient quality.  We live, we die.  Things are obtained, things are lost.  This is the reality that we all live in.
Every emotion is validated just by being a fleeting feeling. ¬†I get upset. ¬†I get angry. ¬†I can be immensely annoyed. ¬†But these feelings are temporary, dissipating just as they arise. ¬†I‚Äôll dwell on what is negatively impacting my life at the moment, and more often than not, realize that it is only temporary and that I have the power of mandating my own emotions towards said negative¬†thing. ¬†This doesn‚Äôt mean developing a ‚ÄúNo¬†Fucks Given!‚ÄĚ attitude; that is the exact opposite of how one should deal with loss. ¬†To care for an individual, thing, place, etc. is one of the most significant actions and traits that we have been¬†privileged in life. ¬†To become upset in the face of loss is normal, truly humane. ¬†It infers a loss behind the tears and outrage. ¬†When it can become destructive is when loss, grief, and incense occupy the mind. ¬†Free up thought space in the mind for more relevant thoughts, such as creating enterprises, designing the optimal life, and ‚ÄúWhat am I going to eat for dinner?‚ÄĚ.
While loss of anything remains relevant for a brief period in time, our lives continue forth on their journeys.  Everyday there are people making wonderful experiences and people that are dealing with tragedies.  What is the true difference between these two types of days?  Is it not correct that one can face a heart-wrenching tragedy on the same day that one experiences real delight and happiness?  Change the outlook, change the day.
Facing Loss

a Lesson on Learning Languages

‚ÄúIt is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.‚ÄĚ

– Theodore Roosevelt, Citizenship In A Republic, delivered at the Sorbonne, in Paris, France23 April, 1910

Espa√Īol Terrible

Without hesitation, I can freely admit that my espa√Īol is terrible. ¬†Maybe “middling” ¬†at best. ¬†Weekly Spanish lessons have propagated a sharp increase in my everyday, conversational speech, but the eureka sensation has yet to sprout. ¬†On my own, I read poems written by the likes of Federico¬†Garc√≠a Lorca and Alejandra Pizarnik, with the aid of SpanishDict! and Google Translate. ¬†Actually, this is how I came to the realization that when compared to English, Spanish is completely backwards! ¬†When everyone around you is speaking the language that you’re still in the process of learning, it’s almost impossible¬†to be immune to the pangs of inadequacy, or even stupidity. ¬†The common Spanish phrases that are used to inoculate these pangs are¬†“tranquilo”¬†and¬†“poco a poco”. ¬†The sentiment is present, though if you’re anything like me, ¬†these phrases will frustrate more than alleviate grammatical vexations.

I am ambitious. ¬†I fancy¬†to attain fluency in a matter of weeks after first initialization, so maybe I’m more impatient than anything else. ¬†However, if I have learned anything about language-learning whilst traveling and living abroad, it would have to be that to learn, one must practice.

Fail at speaking the language!

Practicing What I Preach

The plane alighted in Sofia, Bulgaria around 1AM. ¬†De-boarding was relatively easy since I only travel with carry-on luggage, as well as the time was late enough for the tiny airport to not receive too much air traffic. ¬†I managed to find a taxi driver almost immediately, or rather, he found me. ¬†The drive to the hostel was super quick and light. ¬†Neither the taxi driver nor I had much to say to each other. ¬†In fact, even when we got to the hostel and I was duly ripped-off on the price — a price that is extremely laughable — I didn’t exchange more than a few words with him. ¬†This isn’t because of the time, our individual moods, nor due to a mutual, instantaneous disdain for one another. ¬†The onslaught of silence was perpetuated by the lack of possible words that we could’ve said to each other that would be understood.¬† It may come as a surprise, but the Bulgarian dialect and the English language are completely different! ¬†The alphabets are different from each other too! ¬†How could we possibly have had a conversation when I couldn’t even say “hello” in the native tongue?

Well, when I got inside the hostel, I was determined to right¬†that wrong. ¬†For five minutes upon first introductions, I had the hostel receptionist repeat “hello” in Bulgarian until I could accurately pronounce it. ¬†This was at 2AM. ¬†Bless her soul, she is a trooper for dealing with my curious antics at such an early hour.

Over the following two weeks, I acquired some basic words, greetings, and questions to add to my Bulgarian language repertoire. ¬†I committed a TON of errors, but I wouldn’t have progressed without asking questions and speaking the language.¬†

I then translated this working theory into learning basic Turkish, Italian, and Slovenian.  While I am not fluent in any of the four languages, I was able to understand the  conversational flow for each of them.  This was incredibly eye-opening, as well as entertaining, considering the amount of time I spent in each country.

Ambition doesn’t prohibit humility or modesty.

Re-read that last sentence again.  It can be tailored for any and all goals and aspirations.

Conclusion

I might have a dismal Spanish vocabulary and grammatical knowledge, but I am comfortable with speaking, writing, and reading in Spanish.  I might not have attained fluency yet, but I have accepted my own deficiency.

Fallar, preguntar, probar, y mas importante, estar humilde.

Related Links

pizarnik__alejandra_-_poesia_completa РPoesia Completa by Alejandra Pizarnik.  A huuuugggggeeeee pdf to read at your own leisure.

http://www.hostelmostel.com/ РThe best hostel in Sofia, as well as Veliko Tarnovo.  A bit biased, but oh well!

http://www.spanishdict.com/ РAHHHHHH, the more precise and accurate alternative to Google Translate.  This company has a mobile application that works offline as well!  Perfect for wandering through any Spanish-speaking country.

–ó–ī—Ä–į—Ā—ā–ł (‘zdrasti) ZDRAHS-tee – hello (informal) in Bulgarian.

 

a Lesson on Learning Languages

It’s Been Awhile.

Wow.

I am terrible at updating this blog.

I apologize, friend.

Taking this website too seriously has led to its temporary demise. ¬†The more criticizing and meticulous I am about my writing, the less I publish. ¬†To be frank, I have a smorgasbord of article drafts written, just without the confidence to publish them. ¬†I am terrified of the permanence of the Web. ¬†Nothing is meant to last forever, although, that statement is proven erroneous in the Digital Age. ¬†Nonetheless, I will strive to write and publish at least one article a week. ¬†Anything more will be a bonus. ¬†Be prepared for some egregious outlines; some unfiltered language; please don’t eviscerate me in the comments. ¬†If I love to write, then write I shall! ¬†This blog was designed for the public, when all along, the stories were my own.

Update 12/4/16

I am now in Milan, couch surfing with a friend that I met in Istanbul. ¬†As early as last night, the plan had been to head south to Sel√ßuk, Turkey on the overnight bus, but a problem loomed large: my bus left an hour earlier than expected, leaving me at the bus station dumbfounded and slightly buzzed. ¬†Fate works in mysterious ways, such as bringing me to Milan to reacquaint myself with a new friend. ¬†After the catastrophe at the bus station, I called my friend at the hostel and he secured me a place to sleep for the night. ¬†If you ever go to Istanbul, I highly recommend Hostel Big Apple (http://hostelbigapple.com). ¬†You’ll book with one of two owners, either Aslan or Dan. ¬†Both are the homies, for real – mind my colloquial American speech. ¬†Tell them Christian recommended this place, and a conversation will inevitably (hopefully) materialize. ¬†Anyways, I return to the hostel and am greeted with expressions of mass confusion. ¬†I had dramatized¬†a grand goodbye, which made explaining my mishap all the more embarrassing. ¬†Nonetheless, the friendly atmosphere of the hostel welcomed me back for the night. ¬†For hours, I was lost as to where I should go. ¬†Should I continue on the path already planned, or diverge to new pavements? ¬†I had a friend that was willing to travel to Olympos on the Southwestern Coast of Turkey, mainly because I had relentlessly talked about it throughout El Clasico. ¬†I was tempted to go, but temptations do not necessarily transpire. ¬†Instead, I booked a ticket to Milan at 4AM. ¬†Here I am now, awake at 3:06AM, stroking Rufio’s fur. ¬†As¬†a warranted disclosure, Rufio is my friend’s cat. ¬†I believe I have a plan now, but I will keep it secured in my mind and notebook until I act on it. ¬†I will be in Milan for only a day until I travel North. ¬†The plan for tomorrow is to attend a festival outside of Milan, one that was disclosed to me over gooey pizza and creamy risotto tonight. ¬†Don’t get me started on Italian food. ¬†It is my new passion, my everything, reinvigorating memories of Grandma’s house when I was little.

Anyways, I just wanted to update this blog since it has been over a month since I published a post.  As informal as this post is, this format will be seen again in the future.  As I stated in the first article that I wrote (https://theblueofdistance.com/2016/07/27/preparing-for-a-life-of-travel/), this website will and does consist of an eclectic mix of writing.  Buckle up and prepare for the joy ride.

It’s Been Awhile.

Beneath Madrid, There Is A Community Of Creatives…

Aridity strikes me upon first entering into the furtive, literally underground, art gallery.  I shouldn’t be too surprised though, since the location of this gala was imparted to me through sideways glances and hushed whispers.  This is one of the last places to go to in Madrid that has not been industrialized nor soiled by heavy tourism.  This is the real, seedy, creatively prosperous Madrid.

Finding the massive gray door was surprisingly a challenge since it‚Äôs placed in a location that goes unnoticed in plain sight ‚ÄĒ comparative to one of the many same-colored doors in Manhattan that most people tend to walk by without a glance, unless you are a resident, of course.¬† I was fortunate that the door was unlocked and unbarred, for I had been forewarned that the location is closed off occasionally.¬† The aridity of the plain manila walls upon entrance¬† was underwhelming.¬† The room was host to a barrage of embattled and tattered clothing that had been donated and strewed across white racks, white tables, and the dirty, white tiled floor.¬† I had walked into an alcove of secondhand treasures and I kept on briskly walking past it.¬† Today was not the day that I was to grapple with a Madrile√Īo over a torn t-shirt; nein!

After ascending a small flight of stairs, I was greeted by sticker-ridden dividers that separated the two rooms.¬† Sucking in one last breath of air, I pushed aside the flaps.¬† The succeeding room opened up into a dark, damp, abandoned space.¬† Graffiti marked all available space, exactly what I had been promised.¬† The word ‚Äėgraffiti‚Äô doesn‚Äôt do the markings and murals any justice however ‚ÄĒ this was true art.¬† There were depictions of a swimmer performing front strokes around the circumference of the room fused with bright, vibrant clothing squeezed together to emulate faces reminiscent of a Picasso painting.¬† I was astounded and awed, standing stolidly in the center of the room, swiveling my body in a perfect circle to soak in the view.¬† Banners of black and white tags littered the ceiling, carving a path to the dilapidated stage in the back of the room.¬† I didn‚Äôt dare hop on stage and perform a little jig, but I sure-as-hell felt like moving.¬† And moving I did, at least, moving down the ramp and into the basement.

The basement broke off into two different pathways; one veering left, the other veering right.  I chose the right path since I could see around the corner.  Every inch of these walls were demarcated with vivid paintings, bold fills, and dark, counterculture themes.  Fluorescent lights cast spotlights onto the artwork, leaving me to slink through the shadowy middle of the lane.  The archaic lanes resembled the labyrinthine maze of Ancient Greece.  I half-expected to walk upon a rampaging minotaur!  I was in luck since no minotaurs were found, but I did stumble upon a rampaging garage band at a dead-end in the puzzle.  The music was blaring in their neon-orange lit room that was tucked away in the back of the maze.  I listened to their jam session for a few minutes and then continued my trek through the labyrinth.

Weaving my way through room after room, I came across an entrance to the outer walls of the building: the courtyard.  It was drizzling, but that didn’t stop me from going out to explore the hidden gems in the massive backyard.  Larger-than-life murals were painted on walls and garages alike, but what stuck out to me the most was the verdurous garden growing in the back of the backyard.  A substantial amount of plants had apparently been growing for sometime now, leading me to conjecture that it is a community garden.  I wandered through the brush and then sauntered over to an entrance of a gloomy building.

outside
An entrance to the outside courtyard; rainy, as you can see.

Inside, I was greeted by a saturnine fellow perched on a rickety white lawn chair.  I said my courtesies and then proceeded to snap some shots of the spacious room, which I believe was previously a gymnastics gymnasium.  This proved difficult and uncomfortable though.  Difficulty lay in the dismal amount of lighting; uncomfortableness resided in the frosty, unrelenting stare of the pseudo-bouncer in the chair.  After getting a shot that I was OK with, I gathered myself and briskly walked into the room at the end of the building.

PSA: If you ever feel uncomfortable because of the presence of a mysterious, shady character, NEVER, I repeat, NEVER walk into a room that only has one exit.

Lime green pillars trickled down to meet the burgundy floor, all cast in a late afternoon shadow provided by the slitted window.  It is an eerie experience, a seemingly haunted room.  I’m relieved to find that it is still in use, ghosts or not, when a squadron of dancers enter moments later.  The space is apparently used as a dance studio, to my utter surprise.  I vacate the premise due to the fact that I had left my ballerina pumps back at my apartment.

The sun began to set outside, thus sparking the desire to find my way out of this maze.  The murals twisted and turned, my vertigo spinning with each bend.  I came across a myriad of dilapidated rooms, all of which were in use.  I walked into an art studio, where creatives were hard at work constructing prints on an elongated mahogany table; a recording studio, where Senegalese were blasting reggae, dancing away their troubles (and the smoke); a bathroom, where the toilet was indistinguishable from what went inside of it.  All of this warrants a certain attention that I happily doled out.  Now that I was lost in the labyrinth again, all sense of time withered, as well as my aforementioned panic.

inside
art studio

After what felt like an eternity, I came across the entrance from whence I came, and reemerged into the dank, dark room.  I peered around one last time, and then stole my farewells with me back out onto the streets.  Outside, it was as dark as it was underground, although bereft of all the amazing art that I had just witnessed.

Beneath Madrid, There Is A Community Of Creatives…